All About Us!

We get a lot of inquiries about who we are and what we do. So here you go - everything you ever wanted to know about us!

This entry is taken from an email that we used to send out to women and couples who express interest in getting together with us for some fun (now we send them to this lob!).

First of all, you MUST be 18 or over. As far as upper age limit - well, we really don't have one. We just ask that you be enthusiastic, height-weight proportionate, and excited to play. We also get together with couples, and the male half is welcome to participate or just watch.

We want to make sure that you know we are VERY respectful of your wants, wishes, and especially limits. We're very patient as well. If you want to just spend some time having me answer questions, that's fine. We want to make sure that if you did decide to be the "center of our attention" that you are comfortable with us - that way everyone has more fun!We also don't want to be presumptuous. That being said, we've found it's always easier to be pretty direct about this kind of thing. We're all (potentially) in this for the same reason and so it's easier to just get right to the point and not beat around the bush. This is not the time for either of us to be coy! LOL

But again, this is YOUR party and we want to go at your pace. The stuff below will, we hope, give you both a sense of the care we put into making sure your needs are met, but also to get you thinking about some of the "nuts and bolts" (pardon the pun) of a group encounter. We have been fortunate to provide many women with lots of fun, from first-time gangbangs to specific fantasy fulfillment to just a few hours of naughtiness, and we're very happy to say that every single one of them had a wonderful, satisfying time. Heck, we can probably even scrounge up a testimonial or two. LOL

OK, here we go...
We're a group of men - mostly in our 30s, that enjoy getting together for gangbang fun. Some of us are married, so if that is a problem now you know. We're all regular guys, not a bunch of buff Brad Pitts, but not elephant men either. We get together for weekday activities. We are all professionally employed so it's convenient for us to schedule "long lunches" for our activities. We can and usually prefer to host.

Knowledge of your wants, wishes, and limits is key. We want to make sure you are comfortable and enjoying yourself - otherwise no one has any fun! Also, the type of "role" you want to play is good to know. Some women like to take charge and direct the action. Most want to be in a more submissive role just be "taken" - allow us to have our way with them. In that kind of submissive type of situation we always make sure that all involved parties have a safe word or other sign to let everyone know to pause the action. We are firm believers in no means no - always! But you are always welcome to request we do something, or say you don't want something done. We'd also like to be able to ask if something is OK, and we WILL take no for an answer.Other rules: safe sex for vaginal and anal (oral too if you require but usually that's not the case), no booze, no drugs. We want to make sure that everyone is clean and sober - safer for everyone that way. Discretion is guaranteed and expected.

How many other guys should be there? I would go so far as to say that a good ratio is 7-9 men to 1 woman (of course more women are always fun) - seems to be just about right. I've set up gangbangs with as many as 17 guys (she was happy) but that's not as interactive, or fun in my opinion.

Now for a lot of "first timers" We usually hear something to the effect of, "Nine men! That's an awful lot!" So in case you are thinking that too, allow us to make a case for it:

Remember, you are not entertaining us, we are entertaining you! (Don't worry, we'll have our fun.) You would not (necessarily) be interacting with all of us at the same time. Now 2-3 men is certainly fun, but with a few more added to the mix, the men can move in and out of the group. So while you are continuously being taken care of, we can individually take a moment here and there to "rest up" (of course we'll let you rest a bit too if needed). And while women have the wonderful ability to reach orgasm several times, us unfortunate guys (especially those of us in our 30s) are generally one-hit wonders. More men will allow us to make sure each can give you full attention when in the group, but not so much that they lose their "effectiveness" too soon. :-)

By adding a few more men to your fun, you are going to have a much better time. And for you, it will still be about 2-3 at once. Don't see it as, "wow I have to service all those men." Think of it as, "wow, all those men are really going to make me cum hard, and often!"

And plus, to be perfectly honest, it's fun to sit back and watch. Bring your camera. :-)

But all that being said, it's your party. If you want 2 or 3 or 5 or 10 or 100 men there, we will do everything we can to make sure you get what you want (well, 100 men may be tough to pull off lol). And we will also make very sure that everyone invited is respectable, fun, and interested in making sure that YOU are having a great time (which by default will ensure that WE are having a great time). If you aren't comfortable and satisfied, then it's no fun for us.

As you can imagine we are trying to define that magic line between "be gentle with me" and "treat me like a complete slut." :-) Of course we want to make sure you know that NONE of that stuff is "required" - remember, it's YOUR party! But we also want to make sure you get everything you desire. :-)

And we are often available in smaller groups as well - it's often quite easy to get a 3some together. We're always looking for women who would like to get together on a semi-regular basis, so don't think this has to be a one-time deal. Of course that all depends on how much fun you have the first time! LOL

WHO WE AREThe guys that are part of the group are from all over town. They work in different jobs. Some are married, some are not. Some are blue collar, others (most of us) are white collar. But we do have several common points:

• each one of us enjoys group sex
• each one of us is as interested in making sure the women have as much fun as the men
• each one of us is not afraid to get into close quarters
• each one of us is a friendly, regular guy
• each one of us respects discretion
• each one of us knows what no means no is
• each of us knows how to treat you the way you want to be treated

And so forth. Hope that gives you a good idea!

Your First Gangbang... What to Expect!

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Gangbang FAQs

We get a lot of questions from interested women (and couples - this all applies to you, too!) about how our gangbangs work, what is expected of people, who we play with, and so forth. So I'm going to dedicate this blog entry to answering some of the frequently asked questions we receive. More answers can also be found in our other entries so be sure to check them all out. If you have a question feel free to email it to us at bedson670@gmail.com. There is no pressure for you to participate and we will be very discrete. It's OK to just be curious! :-)

Are you guys for real? Really? Yep, we sure are. really. The pics on this blog are 100% real. You can even read a couple very positive testimonials from women who have participated. (Note that all pics are used with the consent of everyone in the pic).

What kind of girls do you go for?
Enthusiastic ones! We can tell you for a fact that the most attractive part of a woman is enthusiasm. We love women who are into it and make noise and show that they are having a good time. Now THAT is hot! As for looks, sure they matter, but probably not as much as you think they do. There are so many women out there who think they are walking trolls. Wow is that not the case! We've played with women who are very thin and women who are very curvy, women who are in their early 20s and women in their later 40s, women who are white and women who are black, women who are single and women who are married. But let's be realistic as well. We're not going to fuck anything with a pulse. LOL There has to be some attraction - and we'd expect the same from you about us. We love a pretty smile and sparkling eyes, but if you have that gaunt look that comes from smoking since you were 12, that's just not attractive. We love women with curves, but frankly, those curves have to go in at the waist as well. Hey, we're not perfect either. Not gonna say we are.

I'm not really into the dom/sub lifestyle thing. Do I have to be?
Not at all - and we're not into it either. There is a difference between being a Sub (a noun) and being submissive (an adjective). We play with very few women who would consider themselves "Subs." However, just about every woman we play with want to take a submissive role - that's just natural for women who want to be gangbanged. Most of the women we play with are confident, professional, assertive women during the day who want to "play the slut" in a safe, closed-door environment, then go back to "real life" after a few hours, with none the wiser.

Well, I don't want to be labeled a slut either!
Nope, and we're not going to label you one. There is a big difference between fulfilling a fantasy and a lifestyle choice. Let's address this "playing the slut" concept a bit (and while we know that some women do not like the term, it is a nice easy way to make a point - our apologies if this seems too crass). Experience tells us that there are a LOT of women out there who do not want to be considered a "slut" by their peers or "society" but really really get off on the idea of being taken by a group of men. That's what we offer. We understand that you are just playing, that this is not how your friends think you are, and we're not going to let anyone else know about it. Everyone has fantasies, and everyone needs a safe, non-judgmental way to have those fantasies fulfilled. Heck, we're a bunch of guys who participate in gangbangs - do you think we want our "real life" friends to know about that!? :-)

How do I know you'll respect my limits or keep it from getting out of hand?
This is very important to us. We make very sure we know the things you like and do not. We make sure we understand your limits and restrictions, and we respect them! We want you to be comfortable "giving yourself over to us" without fear of anyone crossing any boundaries. And of course if you have any special requests we are very happy to help with those!! We've been doing this for a few years now, and we can happily say we've never had one "bad" incident or event. We're very proud of that!

The weird thing about gangbangs is even though the men generally take charge, the women have the ultimate power to say no. During playtime we will take over and have our way with you (within your limits, of course!) but you at any time can say stop, and we stop! Remember, we want to earn your return visit! :-)

How does everything get started?
Actually, pretty quickly. We don't spend a lot of time on pretense. Once everyone has gathered, we'll exchange a few quick intros, and then take the lead and get things moving. Why so quickly? A few reasons. Mainly, it's the very best way to counteract nervousness, and we can guarantee that if you are a first-timer you will be nervous. The faster the action begins, the faster you can divert your attention away from your nervousness. Works every time. :-) Also, we're all in this for the same reason. Might as well cut to the chase. :-)  

Do you only play during weekday afternoons? What about evenings or weekends?
Yes, our fun takes place during weekday afternoons - it's the best way you can ensure a good turnout.

How many men participate?
Ultimately it's up to you. We've set up fun as small as a 3some and also we've had over a dozen guys participating. Mostly the number of men is between 7 and 9.
Where does it take place?
We usually play at the home of one of the guys in Sun Prairie. Nice split-level ranch in a normal neighborhood. :-)

What is the process for getting something set up?
First, contact me with your interest. We will send you a looooooong email that covers a lot of info already discussed in these blogs, and will get our conversation off to a great start. We do require some pics (we are VERY careful and discrete with pics), and we have lots to share in return. We answer any and all questions, we both determine if we want to play together and you decide you'd like to participate. Assuming we earn your participation, we finalize a date and time, we all show up, and playtime begins!
If you have any other questions, or would like us to discuss a topic in a future blog entry, feel free to email it to us at bedson670@gmail.com  

Have fun and stay naughty!