Friday

Gangbang FAQs

We get a lot of questions from interested women (and couples - this all applies to you, too!) about how our gangbangs work, what is expected of people, who we play with, and so forth. So I'm going to dedicate this blog entry to answering some of the frequently asked questions we receive. More answers can also be found in our other entries so be sure to check them all out. If you have a question feel free to email it to us at bedson670@gmail.com. There is no pressure for you to participate and we will be very discrete. It's OK to just be curious! :-)

Are you guys for real? Really? Yep, we sure are. really. The pics on this blog are 100% real. You can even read a couple very positive testimonials from women who have participated. (Note that all pics are used with the consent of everyone in the pic).

What kind of girls do you go for?
Enthusiastic ones! We can tell you for a fact that the most attractive part of a woman is enthusiasm. We love women who are into it and make noise and show that they are having a good time. Now THAT is hot! As for looks, sure they matter, but probably not as much as you think they do. There are so many women out there who think they are walking trolls. Wow is that not the case! We've played with women who are very thin and women who are very curvy, women who are in their early 20s and women in their later 40s, women who are white and women who are black, women who are single and women who are married. But let's be realistic as well. We're not going to fuck anything with a pulse. LOL There has to be some attraction - and we'd expect the same from you about us. We love a pretty smile and sparkling eyes, but if you have that gaunt look that comes from smoking since you were 12, that's just not attractive. We love women with curves, but frankly, those curves have to go in at the waist as well. Hey, we're not perfect either. Not gonna say we are.

I'm not really into the dom/sub lifestyle thing. Do I have to be?
Not at all - and we're not into it either. There is a difference between being a Sub (a noun) and being submissive (an adjective). We play with very few women who would consider themselves "Subs." However, just about every woman we play with want to take a submissive role - that's just natural for women who want to be gangbanged. Most of the women we play with are confident, professional, assertive women during the day who want to "play the slut" in a safe, closed-door environment, then go back to "real life" after a few hours, with none the wiser.

Well, I don't want to be labeled a slut either!
Nope, and we're not going to label you one. There is a big difference between fulfilling a fantasy and a lifestyle choice. Let's address this "playing the slut" concept a bit (and while we know that some women do not like the term, it is a nice easy way to make a point - our apologies if this seems too crass). Experience tells us that there are a LOT of women out there who do not want to be considered a "slut" by their peers or "society" but really really get off on the idea of being taken by a group of men. That's what we offer. We understand that you are just playing, that this is not how your friends think you are, and we're not going to let anyone else know about it. Everyone has fantasies, and everyone needs a safe, non-judgmental way to have those fantasies fulfilled. Heck, we're a bunch of guys who participate in gangbangs - do you think we want our "real life" friends to know about that!? :-)

How do I know you'll respect my limits or keep it from getting out of hand?
This is very important to us. We make very sure we know the things you like and do not. We make sure we understand your limits and restrictions, and we respect them! We want you to be comfortable "giving yourself over to us" without fear of anyone crossing any boundaries. And of course if you have any special requests we are very happy to help with those!! We've been doing this for a few years now, and we can happily say we've never had one "bad" incident or event. We're very proud of that!

The weird thing about gangbangs is even though the men generally take charge, the women have the ultimate power to say no. During playtime we will take over and have our way with you (within your limits, of course!) but you at any time can say stop, and we stop! Remember, we want to earn your return visit! :-)


How does everything get started?
Actually, pretty quickly. We don't spend a lot of time on pretense. Once everyone has gathered, we'll exchange a few quick intros, and then take the lead and get things moving. Why so quickly? A few reasons. Mainly, it's the very best way to counteract nervousness, and we can guarantee that if you are a first-timer you will be nervous. The faster the action begins, the faster you can divert your attention away from your nervousness. Works every time. :-) Also, we're all in this for the same reason. Might as well cut to the chase. :-)  

Do you only play during weekday afternoons? What about evenings or weekends?
Yes, our fun takes place during weekday afternoons - it's the best way you can ensure a good turnout.

How many men participate?
Ultimately it's up to you. We've set up fun as small as a 3some and also we've had over a dozen guys participating. Mostly the number of men is between 7 and 9.

Where does it take place?
We usually play at the home of one of the guys in Sun Prairie. Nice split-level ranch in a normal neighborhood. :-)

What is the process for getting something set up?
First, contact me with your interest. We will send you a looooooong email that covers a lot of info already discussed in these blogs, and will get our conversation off to a great start. We do require some pics (we are VERY careful and discrete with pics), and we have lots to share in return. We answer any and all questions, we both determine if we want to play together and you decide you'd like to participate. Assuming we earn your participation, we finalize a date and time, we all show up, and playtime begins!
If you have any other questions, or would like us to discuss a topic in a future blog entry, feel free to email it to us at 
bedson670@gmail.com  

Have fun and stay naughty!

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